You know how....

...you'll be at a bar and see people you may have slept with, made out with, dated, internet stalked, are friends with Facebook on and went to middle school with but never say hi to in public?

What about if you went to a bar as often and thought "there's the guy who raped me on my 24th birthday"!. Seeing this person makes my skin crawl but I can't defend myself against him ever because "it was my birthday and I was drunk". My other friends even told me so.